Then leans over and starts messing with me again and says, “Are you sad? Do you need a hug?” and then a splash fight ensued.”
Terry laughed and said, “Those sound like good times. Ron was obviously a riot to have as a friend. Let me ask you a question. How long have you known Ron?”
Jay replied, “Ron? Wow, we knew each other since fourth grade although we really didn’t hang out until my last two years of high school. He was probably my worst influence and my biggest blessing all at the same time." Jay looked down and paused for a moment.
“I’ll save you the awkwardness that happens when I mention him and people ask the next question of “where is he now?”. Unfortunately he died five years ago. Lung Cancer.”
Terry shook his head, “I’m sorry. Some people get the unfortunate experience of dealing with death in their lives more than others. It sounds like you’re no stranger to it. That’s not easy.”
Jay nodded, “Hey, the guy had a full life and did what he wanted to do. I wish he lived longer but he had a blast on this earth in the time he had. We both did. What better wish can you have for a good friend?”
Terry said, “It sounds like he was a good guy, and I didn’t mean to take you away from your story. Did you want to keep going? We're almost out of time for today’s session”
Jay looked at the clock on the wall. “Holy shit. I’ve been talking for an hour? No we can wrap it up now, but I definitely want to continue this. The next part is when it starts to get good”, he smiled, “at least from my perspective.”
Terry said, “It’s already a good story, it’s brining back memories of when I was that young. Did you make an appointment for next week or should we set that up now?” Jay replied, "No, were good. I think it's the same day and time."
Terry said, “I’m not giving you any homework this week. I’ll wait until you finish telling me about Naeva, In the interim, just remember where you left off and call me if things get bad, OK?”
Jay stood up and Terry walked him to a door in the hallway. “Ok Terry, thanks. See you next week.”